April 20, 2011

White lies ahead.

Does white lies counted as lies?

What do you guys think, seriously? When you don't wanna hurt other people's feeling, do you choose to lie instead of telling them the truth? For some of us, or maybe most of us, it's easier to just tell them lies.

I don't dare myself to cause the ones I love tears and just walk away while they breakdown and cry. I will, in my power, try to make them feel good though I know it will hurt them in the end and pray that it will come to a good end, eventually.


I don't know why I chose this white lies as a topic tonight. White is the color of holiness. Why should it be paired with lies? For what I'm aware of, lie is a bad thing to do. Tell me what do you think: would you lie to the one you love to keep everything on track or would you say the truth though you know it would bring your relationship to an end?

thinking,
coffee.stains

April 12, 2011

Great Coffee for Great People.

It's a hello from a coffee shop.

Sebastian Coffee Shop. A friend owned this shop on Jl. Veteran No. 11a. The name itself came from their family name! *Oh I just love everything comes from a family-oriented minded* Besides the great coffee, I also love the ambience of this place. The story of a recycled cafe and a green coffee container. You should come by and taste the coffee yourself. My personal favorite is the iced rum latte and deep friend mushroom as the side dish.

I had them on my wedding. Many of my friends love the taste. My pregnant friend even told me to get her the coffee right after she gave birth. Oh, come on! Lol. But, I will bring her the coffee for I promised her that :)

Sebastian Coffee Shop opens daily from 2 pm - 11 pm on weekdays and 2 pm - 1 am on weekends (Friday & Saturday). So what stops you? If you are a coffee lover just like me, I bet you will love this place. Coffee, snacks and their pasta(s) are great! Free wifi and board games are also available on the spot! Don't forget to bring laptop and companies with you!

Brewing,
coffee.stains

April 02, 2011

Married Life.

Why is it so important to be married?

Well, it's not as harsh as I wrote the whole first sentence. I'm just trying to find what to say, and I just need to write right now.

Hey, it's been more than a month since I finally tied a knot. To me, marriage is - oh well, I don't know what to say (yet) - fine. Things happened. Some things changed. Not so much fun anymore as you think more seriously about the future. But, I guess at some point, you need to keep that fun going on. You just have to manage it somehow. And I know we all will. Or I hope so. Yeah.


Tonight I just find myself wanting to write desperately. I've been muttering all the way home on twitter about how sad my life is today. I know it's stupid, but it truly relieved me from all the tensions and thoughts that have been stuck in my head. Don't know when it started.

And oh yeah, married life huh? What would I wanna say? Waking up early in the morning, making breakfast for your husband and preparing his lunchbox *sweet* were only happening the first two days he went back to the office. The worst wife ever, I know. I still made his lunchbox though, once in a while - like once a week.

And since I got married, I don't know why I become more fragile. I get sick easily. Today happens to be me feeling better after 3 days staying at home feeling dizzy and all that. I hope this didn't last long in my married life. I wanna be strong, tough, and happy of course. And enough talking, I feel a little bit sleepy. My husband has slept before I even started writing. Voila!

So, yeah. Writing. It all started when I turn all connection off on my blackberry device. And I will definitely write again anytime soon. Next, I wanna write about insurance. Not that because I work in an insurance company, but I feel like I really need to write about it.

falling asleep,
coffee.stains